Fantasy football - for women too

Ah the joys of Sunday watching football. It’s a tradition that goes back generations. It’s a moment that can be pictured with ease. A father and son watching the television, maybe with grandfather and/or local friends as well.

Of course now that the internet has become a staple in the lives of virtually every American there is an added benefit. Fantasy football has expanded the drive of millions to see the pig iron game. Untold additional hours are being spent to get the perfect team, and taking the top prize – even if there is nothing more than being known as number 1 as the prize.

Of course this joyous image is not being met with the same pleasure everywhere. In fact there are nearly as many women upset about fantasy football as the actual game. Football widows are now finding that fantasy football means even more of the dreaded game invading their lives.

I even read about the fact that a site has gone up called Women Against Fantasy Sports. And many of these women are angry. Even though the site is a bit on the lighter side of the issue.

The site recalls many of the perils these women share, and ideas about crushing the dreaded enemy once and for all. And have no doubt there are hordes of women that are joining up.

To be honest, if a guy is spending untold hours committed to a dozen fantasy leagues, I can understand some annoyance. Ignoring the significant other is never the best plan for wedded bliss. But there is another way to view fantasy sports. Get involved.

I know many women that are avid fans of this or that football team. I know a slightly smaller group of women that are equally at ease with their fantasy teams. These women have a great time talking about the game and hanging out with the guys every Sunday. Their significant others love that they are as into the game as they are. And they often compete, or get tips on how to do better in their fantasy league from their spouse.

I also know of a very small group of women that have no care in the world about the Sunday without their other half. I’d say more about these women but I know so few and see them so rarely that I really can’t say more.

So let me say this to the men out there. Fantasy leagues are a great bit of fun. Being in 1 or 2 leagues is fantastic, and really amps up the game Sunday and Monday night. But if the game is keeping you up at night, and making your better half wonder what your name is and why you have a key to the house, slow down. Maybe even try to teach her about the league and the sport.

You might be surprised by how involved she may become. Especially if her picks are whopping your butt.

and by the way - Go Giants!